A Tough Choice

Here’s a very small post, with a very important question!

The mere thought of this made me cry for over an hour a few nights back. Asking you this question, my intention is not to make you go through the same pain or confusion but to help you understand your own mind and heart.


SITUATION 1 : You leave this world before your parent(s).

The + point – You never need to feel the loss of them going

The – point – You leave them with the pain of losing the child they gave birth to, and saw grow up.




SITUATION 2: They leave this world before you.

The + point – They are saved from the above mentioned pain.

The – point – You get to live through that tragedy and the life afterwards with the gap of their absence.



Which would you rather have? Bear the pain yourself and or give it to them?; or putting it differently, face death yourself first or let them face it first?


Please think and answer!


A poll

Today, as I was discussing with one of my friends which all movies she and I like most, an idea popped into my head. I decided to know on a larger scale, what movies are liked by people. And though I know this poll will hardly be exhaustive (in options and in result), I think it will give me and the others some idea as to common liking in movies.

So, please spare a minute and answer the question(s) in this poll. If I have left off any option, please feel free to add it yourself. Thanks.

The poll is closed hence forth, that is 26th of September 2011, 9:20 P.M.

And I will publish the results sometime next week, so, you could, if you want, look forth for it. (added 2/10/11) – Sorry people, am not going to be writing a result post, it’s too boring, and am unable to convince myself to write it.

As for me, I like classic romantic and comedy movies. In new movies, there are only a few that I actually like, and that is because they either genuinely make me laugh or touch my heart.