A word, by itself, has No meaning at all.
Here’s a word : Dog!
All of you readers must have thought of ‘a dog’, but at the same time no two dogs would be the same. While some of you might have thought of a pet dog, while some others of a street dog. Even in these two categories, there are millions sub categories. Very rarely will two people take the exact same meaning of a word or set of words.
Here’s an example : He said he sat at the back in the theater.
For all of us, ‘at the back’ would mean towards the rear end, but where exactly is different to each one of us.
Why is it important to be exact, you ask me. The examples I gave are very simple ones, think of a situation where someone says a set of sentences to you. With each word having a different detail to it’s meaning for you both, do you now how much possibility there is of a mis-communication?
We say that the root of all evil is that the people involved are unable to convey exactly what it is that they wish to say. Do you now see how it starts.
But why is it so? It is because we understand each word we hear on the basis of our life experiences. When someone talks of pain, for example, we perceive it in a sense in which we have experienced pain. So even a word as general as pain, is different for us all.
Our life experiences dominate each and everything we hear or say. So, the next time you are saying something to someone, or someone says something to you… be more precise, or ask that person to be more precise. 🙂
Haha. The way you defined Mis-Communication! Amazing. 🙂
Thank you…. 🙂
Rightly penned down !!!
Thanks…
Janhvi : Thanks for dropping by and glad to know that your life coincides with few of my conceptions.All the very best.
That coincidence was nothing less than a shock for me. 🙂
Nice blog hopped from few blogs scross
Keep it going will frequent here
Do drop by
Thank you so much for coming here. Will surely drop by!
We all have a baseline to measure or form opinions of our own and the baseline inevitably is our own experience.
Strangely links to empathy, no?
I liked this post Janhvi 🙂
How truly said!! 🙂
I agree completely 🙂
Well written article. Just landed on your blog through ramdom blog hopping – must say a wonderful blog you have here!
Thoroughly enjoyed reading it.
Thank you so much, for coming here and for taking out time. Your comment is so appreciated. 🙂
I Agree.. Precisely!! 😉
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good one… the words are often used very generically and percieved completely on personal experience…
My point exactly! Glad you agree.
I agree with you, It is important to be precise. Communication breakdown, breaks many relationships when just the right word would do! Jokes are sometimes misunderstood and careless words may hurt deeply. Beautiful words carefully thought out makes the world go round. Beautiful Blog. Thanks for sharing.
Truly said! Thanks for sharing your thoughts too…
nice one your honor…point to be noted… 😛
rightly said Jahnvi…sometimes small-small statements create huge differences… 😦
Glad you agree… and am no “your honour”…..just janhvi